Thanks Abide.
Here is another excerpt i read earlier today....
Faith Blessing the Children
By faith Isaac blessed Jacob and Esau, even concerning things to come. By faith Jacob, when he was a dying, blessed each of the sons of Josesph; and worshipped, leaning upon the top of his staff. By faith Joseph, when his end was nigh, made mention of the departure of the children of Israel; and gave commandment concerning his bones. By faith Moses, when he was born, was hid three months by his parents, because they saw he was a goodly child; and they were not afraid of the king's commandment. --Hebrews 11:20-23
It is remarkable how much, both in this chapter and through all Scripture, faith has to do with the relationship of parents and children. In nature, the life of the parents is imparted to the children. In the spiritual world, it may be so, too; the communion of faith with God reaches the children, too; the man of strong faith is a blessing to his children. In all these cases, faith was the secret inspiration of their treatment of their children and the source of blessing. Faith never confines itself to the person of the believer himself but also takes in his home and children.
And how is it that the Christian parent can secure this longed-for blessing for his children? There is but one answer: by faith. Our lives must be all faith--that is, the unseen things must be our life; yeah, rather, the unseen God must be our life. The blessing and the power are His, and it is as we have more of God in our lives and in our home that there will be the hidden power resting on our children. Faith does not only mean a knowing that there is a covenant promise for our children and a pleading of it in prayer. This is an exercise of faith and has great value, but the chief thing is the life; faith is the making way for God and giving Him place in our lives.
From the patriarchs, we learn what the atmosphere and what the soil is in which there grows such a faith that blesses the children. They were living in the Land of Promise as strangers and pilgrims, or in Egypt as strangers and pilgrims, too, longing for the return to the land. And they had nothing to live on but God. It is a law of nature that no body can be in two places at the same time. This is just as true of the heart. When God took Abraham and his seed out of their country it was so that the Land of Promise--the land of separation from men, of separation unto God--might be to them the training school of faith. They went out from the fellowship of home and family to live in the fellowship of God. It was there that they learned by faith to bless the children.
Separation from the world; a being set apart unto God; the denial of self and its life; the imitation of Abraham in his going out and of Christ in His self-sacrifice--this is the only way to the Land of Promise where the faith-life flourishes. To live wholly for God; to hope alone in God; to always to walk with God; in all things to hearken to God--this is the new and living way into the inner sanctuary, in which Jesus our High Priest leads us. What the Land of Promise was to the patriarchs, as a place of the life of separation and obedience and faith, so the Holiest of All is to us. That is the place of which God has said to us, 'Get thee out of thy country, and from thy kindred, and form thy father's house, unto the land that I will shew thee..and I will bless thee' (Gen 12:1-2); that is the only place where our faith can grow freely and God can prove all His power in us so that we, like they, can be a display of what God can do. And that is the place where our faith will, in full measure, be a blessing to our children.
It is only by faith that we can bless. God is willing to bless us to larger circles than our own house. He is calling for vessels, empty vessels--and not just a few--in which He can multiply his blessing. He is the only Fountain of blessing; as our faith yields to God and allows Him to be all, His blessing will flow.