I think we should be careful about trying to squash every spark out there.This is my heart also. I don't want to be a contrary person who is instinctively down-grading everyone else's theology! The wonderful way you feel about your daughter is really the way we should regard each other, encouraging and generous.I don't have any problems with John Piper! If I lived near enough I would probably attend his Church. Any one who could write an awesome book like "The Pleasures of God: Meditations on God's Delight in Being God" is someone I trust and admire immensely. It's just surprising that a strong God-centered pastor and theologian as Piper, with such a clear emphasis on the supremacy and sovereignty of God would embrace an unclear phrase like "Christian Hedonism." He invites controversy...This is the problem with words. They can be made to mean anything and people who agree with each other end up debating shadows. I now have heard two polar opposite definitions for the same phrase: Christian Hedonism means to some a "Man-centered Gospel" and yet to others, "A God-centered Gospel." Well, if Dr. Piper is making good headway with the phrase Christian Hedonism as meaning "the sanctified desire to find pleasure in God alone", then let me yield to his definition! Let me become a Christian Hedonist who seeks, in every circumstance, to find pleasure in God! Now in the interest of preserving the substance, if not the semantics of my original post I thought I would quote some Oswald Chambers. These quotes pose the question: what exactly is pleasure in God?"There are times when there is no illumination and no thrill, but just the daily round, the common task. Routine is God's way of saving us between our times of inspiration. Do not expect God always to give you His thrilling minutes, but learn to live in the domain of drudgery by the power of God."After every time of exaltation we are brought down with a sudden rush into things as they are where it is neither beautiful nor poetic nor thrilling. The height of the mountain top is measured by the drab drudgery of the valley; but it is in the valley that we have to live for the glory of God... It is in the sphere of humiliation that we find our true worth to God, that is where our faithfulness is revealed. "Most of us develop our Christianity along the line of our temperament, not along the line of God. Impulse is a trait in natural life, but Our Lord always ignores it, because it hinders the development of the life of a disciple. "Walking on the water is easy to impulsive pluck, but walking on dry land as a disciple of Jesus Christ is a different thing. Peter walked on the water to go to Jesus, but he followed Him afar off on the land. We do not need the grace of God to stand crises, human nature and pride are sufficient, we can face the strain magnificently; but it does require the supernatural grace of God to live twenty-four hours in every day as a saint, to go through drudgery as a disciple, to live an ordinary, unobserved, ignored existence as a disciple of Jesus. It is inbred in us that we have to do exceptional things for God; but we have not. We have to be exceptional in the ordinary things, to be holy in mean streets, among mean people, and this is not learned in five minutes."Blessings Chanin,MC