Solomon101,
There is a difference between what you have done and what is being done here. Going to a bar and preaching the Gospel is fine. Drinking is not a sin. Doing both at the same time is not a sin. Using alcohol for the sake of alcohol as a vehicle for the presentation of the Gospel is wrong. Change the word alcohol to something--anything, if you'd like. It'd be equally wrong.
As to the verses I was quoting, I was leaning more toward 1 Corinthians 8-10. Let's look at the specific principal to which I was referring:
1 Corinthians 10:23-33 says, " "Everything is permissible,” but not everything is helpful. "Everything is permissible,” but not everything builds up. No one should seek his own good, but the good of the other person.
Eat everything that is sold in the meat market, asking no questions for conscience’ sake, for the earth is the Lord’s, and all that is in it. If one of the unbelievers invites you over and you want to go, eat everything that is set before you, without raising questions of conscience. But if someone says to you, "This is food offered to an idol,” do not eat it, out of consideration for the one who told you, and for conscience’ sake. I do not mean your own conscience, but the other person’s. For why is my freedom judged by another person’s conscience? If I partake with thanks, why am I slandered because of something I give thanks for?
Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for God’s glory. Give no offense to the Jews or the Greeks or the church of God, just as I also try to please all people in all things, not seeking my own profit, but the profit of many, so that they may be saved."
Lost people in your area might not care a hill of beans about whether a Christian drinks alcohol or not. Here, in the south, it matters a lot. There is one person in particular that I am witnessing to that always offers me a beer when I visit with him. But the Spirit has revealed to me that his goal is not a friendly gesture, but to prove that he is already just as moral as me--not that I am better than him, but because he does not understand grace, I willingly give up the freedom to drink alcohol so as not to hinder the Gospel. And to be honest, I don't drink at all. I just don't like it--I don't drink many sodas or milk for the same reason...lol.
A word about the # of references to meat opposed to the # of references to drinking in the passage from Romans--that isn't the point of any of those verses. The Holy Spirit did not designate the number of references to meat verses the # of references to drinking as a sign that food was far worse and drinking was minimal. Take the passage at face value--if it offends my weaker brother, I will give it up for his sake--so that he will not stumble.