Bro. Bill.
I think sidewalks point is good concerning the passage from psalms. I think it would be good to study the context of the other passages as well. For example, one of them is the perspective of a pagan king.
I think we are often tempted to try to interpret scripture from the perspective of an a priori commitment to a particular doctrinal position. It is much like looking at the world through colored glasses. everything then appears to be tinted that same color. I noticed by your question in the original post that you seemed to me to be seeing the issue through the belief that God ultimately controls even our own choices. If I saw that incorrectly, please let me know. But those lenses will color that verse in a way that will make it hard to understand.
At the very foundation of this world, God allowed man the ability to choose obedience or disobedience. Adam chose to disobey. If there were ever a time to override the will of man, that should have been it. Good has lately dealt with me about His will in an area. He made it clear to me that He would accomplish what He desires through me, or if I chose to disobey through someone else. His purpose was going to be accomplished. His will would come to pass. However I chose whether it would happen through me, or another person if I did not obey.
If I do not have the ability to exert my will over God's will where my own life is concerned, then the concepts of obedience and disobedience cease to have any meaning where my relationship with God is concerned.
So, Jesus teaches us to pray,"Your kingdom come, Your well be done..." It is the expression of surrender to the Lordship of God over every aspect of my life. Not because I have no choice, but because I choose to submit to Him. In fact, His very a admonition to submit ourselves to God implies that we could just as well choose not to submit.
How that makes what I was saying more clear.