I have a handful of stories recently but I'll start off with this one of simple act.
(I'm not a great story teller, kind of long winded, so please bear with me. :) )
About two years ago, I started going to this AG church, by God's leading. I mostly attended their prayer meetings, as they were minimal in their religious pride (it was a Thursday night, people work jeans and shorts, it was welcoming). These meetings felt rich, roughly 50 people every meeting, with a faithful group of 20. I came to these meetings at the tail end of it's existence. It was around six years prior and when I came, it was only around for one more year after I joined.
The faithful ~20 knew each other for most of those six years. They went on hiking trips, ski trips, and various social outings.
When I arrived, there was one of the 'faithful 20' that I kept hearing about, let's call him James. Everyone said, "James is amazing" "Boy, that reminds me of James" "What you never met James? Gosh, he is awesome." Keep in mind, I went every single week, except maybe four meetings.
I heard of James for months on end. From almost everyone. But I never met this James.
Finally, after 3-4 months, I meet him. He seems like a cool Christian. He lived up to all the hype and praise that others spoke of him behind his back.
Fast forward to a year ago, the prayer group ends.
My wife and I now start seeking out godly friendships. One of the people we sought out...was...you guessed it, James.
Well, we nurture our friendship. Loving him. Encouraging him. Just being a good friend. No strings.
After about half a year, James randomly drops a bomb on us.
"Guys, if it wasn't for you. I'm not sure where I'd be."
To our shock, "What do you mean?!?!"
"Well, I was really depressed when we started hanging out. No one was hanging out with me. No one called, except maybe one guy from the prayer group. I reached out but no one seemed like they wanted to hang out with me. You guys did and I'm grateful that you showed me God's love. You guys are the reason why I'm here."
He went on to say how he struggled with deep depressed and how we helped him out of it.
In conclusion, I feel I learned a lot from just being someone's friend. I didn't feel me nor my wife had anything to offer anyone. But we do, it's love. And it's a power that breaks every chain. Also, I learned that the Christians at the prayer meeting...had forgotten the value of friendship. For whatever reason, they stopped hanging out with 'awesome James'. That another 'James' could be struggling and needs your company/love. I don't judge the brothers who stopped hanging out with James, God provided a way, through wife/I, to impact James and that's all that matters (He has impacted us deeply too...and continues to impact our lives).