You, Lord, are forgiving and good, abounding in love to all who call to you. ”“ Psalm 86:5
We reflect many times in our attitude and character our perception of how God is. Our picture of God at times paints the way we deal with and think of others. When someone has a view of God that is only austere, severe and aloof, such thinking will result in dealing with people without love and relationship. When we hold to a view that God is only interested in justice, we will seek the same. When we do not fully experience the love, mercy and forgiveness of God, it is impossible to share that same forgiveness to others. When we minimize the forgiveness of God we end up loving others less (Luke 7:47). God is love, he is good and forgiving. He is not first wrath, just, or exacting. We must realize the character of God rightly or we will become severe and hurtful to others around us even in the body of Christ. It is a terrible thing to desire a brother or sister in the Lord to be judged by God. We should always seek and pray for mercy upon others not exacting justice. If we all got what we deserved even for our small offences it would be a terrible thing. God allows us to have a personal relationship with himself and he forgives and loves us as children. Though God is to be feared and reverenced we must realize that we are accepted by him fully through Jesus Christ. He has forgiven us and continues to forgive us (1 John 1:9).
Jesus says "be reconciled” to your brother who has something against you (Matthew 5:24). As believers we have been given the "ministry of reconciliation” (2 Corinthians 5:18). It would not only be strange but wrong to not forgive others and still claim to represent God’s forgiveness to the world for their sins. When we preach the Good News to others yet hold unforgiveness to someone we become hypocrites. We offer humanity forgiveness through Christ yet at the same time are in bondage to unforgiveness and evil thoughts towards others. We who claim to be entering the kingdom of the Forgiving God, must show forgiveness to others. When we pray the Lord’s pray we essentially say "Come, O Lord, and forgive me my sins even as I forgive those who sin against me.” Forgiveness is at the core and heart of God. St. Augustine said, "Imagine the vanity of thinking that your enemy can do you more damage than your enmity.” Essentially, what is being said is that the damage you do to yourself, your very soul, by your unforgiveness far outweighs any hurt an enemy can cause. Heavenly Father, I release others who I have held things against. Help me to see Your forgiveness and love more so I can in turn love and forgive others. Amen.
from: https://gregjgordon.wordpress.com/2015/07/08/seeing-gods-forgiveness-helps-us-release-others/
