Hi rbanks,
Do any of you believe that a person can be born with a gender identity that make a person feel like a different sex than what they were raise as?
No. Gender is biological. If you take a DNA test with a company like 23andMe, Ancestry or another company, you will learn something about chromosomes. A male can trace both his maternal and paternal haplogroups because that male has both the X and Y chromosomes. The same cannot be said about females. They only have the X chromosome.
There is no evidence -- outside of a disorder -- that states people are born with a disconnect between their physical gender and their mental gender.
I mean I saw a program one time where they stated that a child was born with 2 different sex organs. The parents decided to choose one sex over the other and later on the child felt different than the sex that was chosen.
This is exceptionally rare in nature and is typically identified as a defective fertilization process (often when a twin would have normally developed). There has never been a case in which a person born as a hermaphrodite (a person born with both male and female "parts") had both sets of gonads functioning. Either one set work and the other does not or they both do not function (and the non-working gonad often becomes cancerous). In every case (except for one), the individual's gonads always aligned with their predominant XX or XY chromosome identification. In that one strange case, an XY predominant person (genetically speaking) who lived as a female and had fully-developed female organs (but not male) actually gave birth. However, the conclusion was that this one case was that of a "merged" and mutated development and is the only documented case of its type in which the body did not necessarily align with the predominant presence of the Y chromosome in a true hermaphrodite.
I would argue that this is very different from people who claim to be "transgender." Transgender is a mental disorder in which the mind tells someone that they are a gender opposite the one that they were born. It is exceptionally rare and is never associated with genetic or biologic normalcy. It is difficult to diagnose because there is almost always a component of "acceptance" in the families that diagnose their children with this disorder. In other words, there is a very real "nurture" component to it. I read one report in which the rate of occurrence in children was so much higher in families that were either LGBT or LGBT-friendly, that one could even diagnose the "transgender" condition as possibly being a result of nurture received in the LGBT house.
Still, it is important to point out that "transgender" (aka gender dysphoria) disorder is exceptionally rare -- even more so than the number of people diagnosed with other mental disorders like schizophrenia, misophonia or other conditions. In fact, the number of "transgender" individuals is liberally estimated (through polls about gender self-identification) at between 0.002 to 0.014% of the population. With about 7.1 Billion people on the planet, this works out to a liberal estimate of between 142,000 to 994,000 individuals living with this disorder. Yet, the occurrence is much lower in rural areas or regions deemed more "conservative" and in all but a handful of "open" cities. For instance, the rates of occurrence among residents including "transplants" (people who moved to a location) in cities like San Francisco or Boston is much, much higher than the rate of occurrence worldwide. This quantification points to nurture over nature (unless one argues that there is "something in the water").
Do you think it is possible for some to be born with mixed up identities that they struggle with or do you think that this is impossible and that every transgender people are led this way because of the devil.
Personally, I believe that people are nurtured this way -- either nurtured from childhood through encouragement by opinionated parents OR by a society that now encourages people toward egotism and hedonism. Unfortunately, it is the hysteria of the moment -- encouraged by Hollywood and the media -- possibly in the hopes of enlarging the numbers of those who claim that they are affected by this condition.
There is a young man who works at a local PetSmart. My wife loves fish and we have several aquariums at home and the school where she works. Consequently, we visit that PetSmart often. One day, this young man -- who is quite androgynous and seems to identify as a woman (given the way his voice changes and the way he dresses) -- spoke with me about how I was not "afraid" of him. This opened the door, of course, to talk about spiritual matters.
This young man mentioned that he began "reconsidering his gender" (his words) at the encouragement of his parents -- who happen to be LGBT activists. We have spoken often enough that he knows that I don't hate him. I asked him if he considered whether their influence might have played a role in rethinking his gender. He agreed -- but said that his parents only want him to be the person that he was "born" to be. I asked him, "Then why do you make the effort to change your voice to sound more effeminate?"
This question puzzled him. I told him that his voice often changes from a more masculine-sounding male to an effeminate-sounding female. I asked him which one was real. He said, "I don't know what you mean." So, I asked, "Which voice requires you to make an effort? When you stub your toe, do you say 'ouch' in a masculine or feminine voice?" Apparently, he understood and wasn't offended by my question. "Oh," he said, "my voice is male. I just make the effort to sound like who I am inside." I then asked, "If you are trying to be the person that you were born to be, why would you make an effort to change something as integral to who you are as your voice?" I asked him if he had ever looked into whether this was an actual product of nature or a product of conditioning. I asked what he thought caused his condition.
By the way, I use the term "condition" very loosely -- because it cannot be diagnosed by medical professionals on the basis of genes, body chemistry, genitalia or another other way outside of a mental health professional's signature or observation about the way a person behaves.
Do I think that there is something diabolical at play. Yes. While I strongly oppose silly conspiracy theories that are so loosely thrown around by some people that are based more of rumor, gossip, an imaginative thought process or other things that spur such matters, I do believe in an eternal conspiracy of the ages. Satan exists. He knows his time is short.
What was the first command that God gave Adam and Eve?
"God blessed them; and God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” Genesis 1:28 (NASB)
We live in an age in which humans are being redirected away from this first command. Environmentalists almost worship this planet as if it was their god and its preferred maintenance is their religion. I have always thought that it was interesting that godless people encourage things like abortion, homosexuality and transgender disorder. Why? The humans made in God's image and likeness are no longer fruitful and multiply. The Liberals of this world are more concerned over a hunter who kills a lion in Africa than a pro-abortion agency harvesting baby body parts for resale.
When I see a former Olympian going on television and viewers being encouraged (e.g., indoctrinated, coerced, brainwashed, etc...) into believing it to be "normal" or praiseworthy, I just assume that this is a part of a society that is running away from God and rushing toward judgment and Eternity.
Do you also believe that a transgender person must go back to the original gender in order to finally be saved?
I think that the Holy Spirit will bring clarity to the person who truly comes to the Lord. As such, I believe that they will revert to their real gender -- the one that they were born with. This is true for people who only pretend to be the opposite gender or even those who spend enormous amounts of money on surgery, chemical ingestion, wigs, makeup, etc... BTW, I have always thought that it was hypocritical for modern Liberals to tell people that they should not be ashamed of who they were born to be YET they embrace a disorder in which they are encouraged to spend money to change or disguise the physical body (and even voice) that they were born with.