Dear brother,
Thank you for sharing your heart and real burden for the Presence of God in the gathering of saints. I just got back from a house church meeting that is starting in our area and it was wonderful, we did not want to leave. And we really are not seeking the Lord and having much happening yet, but just kindred hearts in the Lord is wonderful.
One avenue of finding like-minded brethren could be the upcoming 12 regional gatherings with Gospel Fellowships http://gfel.org which we will be posting on SermonIndex once they are fully confirmed.
Also there might be saints on the forums here nearby you. May God allow you to start a home fellowship.