Hi brother Tim,
I absolutely agree. Being accountable to one another is the new testament norm. But that takes trust because many men will simply not open up, even in a group setting. I have seen men open up to me because I openly share my testimony wherever I go. There is nothing you could tell me that would shock me. In other words, I am not so foolish to think that this wretched and besetting sin has not touched even the most godly of men. Who knows? There is also so much shame associated with this sin. Especially if you are looked up to in the Church today. So a cycle begins where leaders hide their sin and no longer discuss the matter with others. And so the rest of the church also gets no help.
I have not looked at porn since the Lord delivered me 5 1/2 years ago. All Glory be unto His name. I have been tempted many times and I am not so foolish to think that I could not fall again. I do not know how it works but God put such a "fear" in me and a hatred for this sin that I dread the feeling so much that I would rather cut my hand off than go back to the vomit cycle of slavery to sin again.
I do not say any of this to boast but to let others know that this is what God wants for them too and He will do it in them if they are desperate enough and ask Him in faith. But if they gloss over their sin and shrug it off as no big deal, they will NEVER GET VICTORY....NEVER!!!
I cannot think of anything worse for a believer to endure than such a life of slavery to sin. And I cannot think of anything worse than a hypocrite who somehow believes that they have Gods life when in fact they are DEAD within and ruled by the powers of darkness. Perhaps some of them lurk on these forums? Perhaps some of them are frequent posters here? If so why are you posting and trying to show the world how spiritual you are when in fact you are the complete opposite?
Until you are sick and tired of the way you are God will simply leave you alone. It is time for you to stop playing games and deal the death blow to porn in your life.