I experienced stress at my last job. For a time, I was very grumpy (that is putting it nicely) that I had to work at this place, and then a good friend sent me some words by Elizabeth Elliot to remind me of what I already knew: this is the place that God placed me for His purposes and I needed to be thankful that I was there.
That changed my perspective and my attitude. As Sree stated, I had to remember that I work for Christ always. I had to be the honest one, when others (including my boss) were skirting the rules, if not outrightly breaking them, I had to work diligently and excellently in all I did.
I did not get appreciation for my hard work, other than to be given more of other people's work to complete. :) Others got paid much more for doing less work and were even offered promotions even though they were mediocre, simply because of who they knew, while my good work went mostly unrewarded, and unappreciated. I was never counted as an important part of the team by my manager even though I was doing twice as much as everybody else. Knowing that this work was for Christ and knowing that He was the one that was keeping me there helped me have the right attitude (most of the time) in spite of all that.
A few months ago the Lord opened up a job somewhere else. I lost my benefits and get paid significantly less, but am very happy with what I am doing. Things get tight financially sometimes, but my children say that I am less grouchy than I used to be and that is a huge plus. I don't stress about going to work every morning, and that is also a huge plus.
I do pray that I was a good witness of Christ in all I did at my old job. That is all that matters. If I failed in any way, I have smeared His name.
This is the quote from Elizabeth Elliot that helped me. I do know what the scriptures say, but this gave me a good perspective of my situation. I put this up in my cubicle so I could see it every day. :)
"This job has been given to me to do. Therefore, it is a gift. Therefore, it is a privilege. Therefore, it is an offering I may make to God. Therefore, it is to be done gladly, if it is done for Him. Here, not somewhere else, I may learn God’s way. In this job, not in some other, God looks for faithfulness." ~ Elizabeth Elliot
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Natalie