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‘Til Death Do Us Part: Early Pentecostals on Divorce and Remarriage

sermonindex Nov 2, 2017

In August 2007, high-profile "Pentecostal” evangelists Juanita Bynum and Paula White announced that they are leaving their husbands. While these tele-evangelists are not Apostolic and are not representative of the Pentecostal norm, it is troubling that their decisions have had little impact on their respective ministries. The Church is always vulnerable to cultural influences, and the divorce and remarriage question, which is thoroughly treated by Jesus Christ and the Apostles, continues to be interpreted and reinterpreted in the modern Church. Early twentieth century Pentecostals (both Oneness and Trinitarian) were vehemently opposed to Christian divorce, and their writings reveal the honest and sometimes controversial struggles to deter marital dissolution, to define the conditions for sanctioned separation, and to provide for spiritual reconciliation.

In The Apostolic Faith, William Joseph Seymour, leader of the Los Angeles Azusa Street Mission, describes new converts to the Pentecostal faith who believed that God’s call superseded their commitment to family and home: "Many homes today have been wrecked and brought to naught through false teaching. Wives have left husbands and gone off claiming that the Lord has called her to do mission work, and to leave the little children at home to fare the best they can” (Seymour, "Bible Teaching . . .” 3). He also admonishes others who "have come to think that it is a sin for them to live as husband and wife,” concluding, "It is no sin to marry” (Seymour 3). Incidentally, Seymour’s own 1908 marriage to Jennie Evans Moore, a fellow worker at Azusa, precipitated the exodus of some workers, including Florence Crawford and Clara Lum who began a mission in Portland, Oregon (Sanders 110-113).

In an effort to clarify Azusa’s stand on the issues of divorce and remarriage, Seymour took a catechetical approach in a January 1908 article. "On what grounds did the Lord Jesus teach that a man and wife could separate?” Seymour’s response admits that fornication constitutes biblical justification for divorce, however he posits: ” . . . but he has no right to marry another according to the Scripture, while she lives” (Seymour, "Questions . . . ” 2). In answer to the question: "Do you have preachers and evangelists of the Apostolic Faith that have two wives or two husbands?” Seymour acknowledges a transition in his understanding of the issue. Initially, the mission did ordain converts who were divorced and remarried before their conversion, "thinking that everything was under the Blood.” However, he concludes: "But after searching the Scriptures, we found it was wrong; that the widow was to be the wife of one man and the bishop was to be the husband of one wife” (Seymour, "Questions . . . ” 2).

Charles H. Mason, original presiding bishop of the Church of God in Christ, shared Seymour’s view that conversion did not release a saint from marital entanglements before regeneration. In fact, Mason openly criticized "Elder C” [Bro. Glenn Cook], who was teaching that baptism in the Name of Jesus Christ remitted sins, including divorce and adultery:

. . . the anti-Christ also put into Elder C. to say that those who had other men and women’s husbands and wives before they came to light that they did not have to leave them that [sic] the water washed it all away, he would put before them 1 Cor. 6:9-11. But ye are washed now. That meant to him, any man that had another man’s wife or another woman’s husband before they got washed, that the washing made it all right to stay on, one with another and go on doing the same things that they did before only the washing made it so they could do it and it would not [sic] longer be a sin. (Mason 81)

Here we have evidence of the primitive Pentecostal idea that divorce and remarriage could only be corrected by divorcing the subsequent spouse and returning to the first. Bro. Cook clearly opposed this interpretation for those who had so sinned before their baptism.

Like C.H. Mason, G.T. Haywood initially taught that converts to the Apostolic Faith must make restitution by returning to his or her original spouse, but he recognized the error of this teaching and is in agreement with Bro. Cook’s assessment: ” . . .when a man repents and is baptized in ‘water and the Spirit’ he is a new creature in Christ, which is the church, his body. The fact that God sets him in the body is a proof that God has judged his case and exonerated him from all sins and mistakes of the past . . .” (Haywood 116).

While most Pentecostals believed that divorce was allowable in the case of fornication, there was a universal rejection of remarriage. Discussing the "exception clause” from Matthew 19.9, Seymour wrote: "Jesus makes it very plain. If the innocent party marries, they are living in adultery” (Seymour, "The Marriage Tie” 3). Andrew Fraser, an Assemblies of God pastor from Chicago, wrote a very plain treatment of the issue in 1915:

The Bible then grants no permission to marry again while one’s companion is living. But some one asks, What about Matt. 5:32 and Matt. 19 :9? Doesn’t it say "except for fornication?” Yes, but the "except for fornication” pertains to the putting away and has absolutely nothing to do with any permission for the parties to marry again. We yield the point as to the putting away, but this fact stands forth clear and unquestioned that there was absolutely no permission given for re-marriage during the life-time of either party. No one can violate this express command without becoming an adulterer in the sight of God. (9)

Stanley Frodsham, another early AG pastor and historian, wrote similarly:

There is however a basis for the inference that adultery is a legitimate ground for divorce in Jer. 3:8 in which Jehovah says, "When for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce.” But there is clearly no ground for remarriage given in this scripture. God kept the door of repentance always open. (9)

Bishop Haywood declares: "In the church if a brother and sister, being married separate and marry another while either of the other is living, they are living in adultery . . . When such as this takes place then it is time for the church to act. We could not stand clear before God and permit such to be carried on in the House of God” (Haywood 118). Yet more plainly, he writes: "In the church of God, there is to be no divorcing to remarry. In the world it is bad enough, but when we come into the Body of Christ, (I Cor. 12.12-13) such practices are no longer to be tolerated” (Haywood 123).

These early Pentecostals conscientiously divided the Scriptures, protecting both the souls of the flock from the stain of sin and the Body of Christ from reproach. While there are points of contention and disagreement in their writings, Pentecostal pioneers universally agreed that Scripture forbade divorced believers from remarrying during the lifetime of their first spouse. Despite their rigidity on the subject, all agreed that God’s mercy was extended to all transgressors, and the blood of Christ was powerful to save and cleanse. Stanley Frodsham wrote: "Is there no hope for the adulterer? Yes there is hope” (9). While the Church must combat the worldly paradigm of dissolving flawed relationships, we must also extend to those without and within the Body of Christ heartfelt mercy as conduits of God’s healing and compassion, tempering the letter of the Law with the Spirit of Jesus Christ who absolved the sinful woman at the well saying, "Neither do I condemn thee: go and sin no more” (Jn. 8.11).

Works Cited

Fraser, Andrew. "Marriage and Divorce: "But from the beginning it was not so.” Latter Rain Evangel. 8 (1) Oct 1915, pp. 6-14.Frodsham, Stanley H. "Marriage and Divorce.” The Pentecostal Evangel. No. 707 23 July 1927, p. 9.

Haywood, Garfield T. God’s Word Exhorted, Revealed, and Prophesied. Indianapolis: Christ Temple Apostolic Faith Church, 1990.

Mason, Mary. The History and Life Work of Elder C.H. Mason Chief Apostle and His Co-Laborers. Memphis: Church of God in Christ, 1924.

Sanders, Rufus G.W. William Joseph Seymour: Black Father of the Twentieth Century Pentecostal/Charismatic Movement. Sandusky, OH: Alexandria Publications, 2001.

Seymour, William J. "Bible Teaching on Marriage and Divorce.” The Apostolic Faith 1 (5) Jan 1907, p. 3.

””. "The Marriage Tie.” The Apostolic Faith 1 (10) Sep 1907, p. 3.

””. "Questions Answered.” The Apostolic Faith 1(11) Oct-Jan 1908, p. 2.

from: https://oldlandmark.wordpress.com/2007/09/02/17/

sermonindex Nov 3, 2017

This has nothing really to do with the subject at hand but I wonder what our wonderful theologians would make of King David, taking for his wife, the wife of a man he had murdered after fathering a child with her outside of wedlock? And then, from that union, to have a child that would sit on his throne and build the temple. Just a thought..........bro Frank

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JFW Nov 3, 2017

Ha!!

I literally thought the exact same thing while reading this,
apparently there are exceptions ...

Also there might should be a distinction made between people who identify as christian and those whom actually know Him~

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savannah Nov 3, 2017


King David had six wives prior to taking Bathsheba as his seventh.

sermonindex Nov 3, 2017

When it comes to rightly dividing the Word of God, there are things hard to understand. I have often wondered why the Lord allowed multiple wives to men in the Old Testament, and even blessed them. I cannot understand that. His ways and thoughts are so much higher than ours.

""This has nothing really to do with the subject at hand but I wonder what our wonderful theologians would make of King David, taking for his wife, the wife of a man he had murdered after fathering a child with her outside of wedlock? And then, from that union, to have a child that would sit on his throne and build the temple. Just a thought..........bro Frank""

This is something I wonder about too. The Lord looked at David in brokenness repentance of heart and had mercy on him.

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narrowpath Nov 3, 2017

This is a question that troubles me for years. We have a remarried believing couple in our fellowship. Both were married before. I cannot see the legality of their marriage, but can I tell them to dissolve their marriage?
What is the best way forward? Has anyone any experience in this matter?

Please refrain from mere opinions, thanks.

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"Please refrain from mere opinions, thanks."

That's all we have on here Narrowpath. You must already know the Scriptures that pertain to marriage and divorce and the two broad camps that exist. Read them and see what they say to you about this subject, ask the Holy Spirit to show you. Ask ten people on this site or anywhere else and you may possibly get 10 different opinions.

My opinion, obviously based on the Scriptures that speak to this subject and if you dont know them or I have to quote them then you should not even be asking the question.

1. If people are divorced prior to being saved then this is not the unforgivable sin and if they get remarried as new creatures in Christ then that marriage in no way should be annulled.
2. If two professing Christians people are married, and one spouse cheats, does not want forgiveness, leaves and divorces their spouse, the innocent is blameless and is free to remarry.
3. If a man or a woman who is a Christian is married to an unbeliever ( my case) then the that man or woman must stay with their spouse if the spouse is willing. If the spouse is not willing and divorces the Christian, then the Christian is no longer under bondage to that marriage. Now remember, these are my opinions based on what I believe the Lord has shown me by my reading of the same Scriptures that everyone else on here has read. You will get dissenting views, but the deal is, and here is what possibly could have saved tens of millions of lives over the last 2000 years the dogmatic theologian who will tell everyone that they must bow to their interpretation ( and in previous centuries it would be under pain of death) Read the Word, be led by the Holy Spirit and follow the convictions that come from that and this is how we answer to God...........bro Frank

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narrowpath Nov 3, 2017

You are right, Frank.
However, if a thief had stolen something prior conversion, should not he return the goods?

This view on remarriage cost John the
Baptist his head.

David Pawson asked those who were remarried to read out aloud the related scriptures in front of him and to each other and leave it to them what they are going do about it.

I do not believe in the legality of remarriage but would stop short of asking couples to divorce.

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savannah Nov 3, 2017

"David Pawson asked those who were remarried to read out aloud the related scriptures in front of him and to each other and leave it to them what they are going do about it."

But David Pawson also believes that an eternal divorce is possible as well, to one who has been married to Chist.

Not only is he inconsistent regarding this, but is trying to get these couples to believe that they're living in adultery. The reason I say that is because it's well known that he thinks that the Scriptures teach that. His approach is sinister in my opinion.

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Quotations are by Frank;

"1. If people are divorced prior to being saved then this is not the unforgivable sin and if they get remarried as new creatures in Christ then that marriage in no way should be annulled."

I agree.

"2. If two professing Christians people are married, and one spouse cheats, does not want forgiveness, leaves and divorces their spouse, the innocent is blameless and is free to remarry."

I agree.

"3. If a man or a woman who is a Christian is married to an unbeliever ( my case) then the that man or woman must stay with their spouse if the spouse is willing. If the spouse is not willing and divorces the Christian, then the Christian is no longer under bondage to that marriage."

I agree.

One thing was left unsaid. In #3 no mention is made as to whether the believer may remarry, in the Lord. I believe that he may.

So, what is your opinion on #3. Is the believer free to remarry or not?

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Saints,

My reason for sharing the original post shows that in most if not all denominations there has always been a strong leaning towards "no remarriage" unless the spouse has died. Only in the last 50+years this has been changed as well as allowing many other unbiblical things such as homosexuality, etc.

Sharing the view of the early pentecostals shows they were much more stricter and biblical in their view points then we might think they were.

sermonindex Nov 3, 2017

Yes Savannah I believe the innocent spouse would be free to remarry. One last point, Greg speaks about the way pentecostals and others used to act or feel about this issue, this, while instructional on how they use to feel about this issue, is irrelevant, what matters is what Scripture says less we stack error upon error and allow vicious little men to go around the country and heap condemnation upon saints who are indeed married in the sight of the Lord......bro Frank

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Lysa Nov 3, 2017


I'm going to just talk about the adultery and divorce issue first.

Romans 2.22 Thou that sayest a man should not commit adultery, dost thou commit adultery? ...


We all conveniently forget this Scripture
John 8:3 And the scribes and Pharisees brought to Him a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before them 4and said, "Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such a woman. So what do You say?”

John 8:7 When they continued to question Him, He straightened up and said to them, "Whoever is without sin among you, let him be the first to cast a stone at her.”

James 2:10 Whoever keeps the whole Law but stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it. 11 For He who said, "Do not commit adultery,” also said, "Do not murder.” If you do not commit adultery, but do commit murder, you have become a lawbreaker. 12 Speak and act as those who are going to be judged by the Law that gives freedom.…


We understand that Jesus got to the "heart" of the matter, correct? What about this Scripture spoken by Jesus?

Matthew 5:28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

What if this verse if soooooo important that religious folk just like to overlook it because of their guilt?

I submit that if you are going to follow the Law (as in James 2), you need to follow it completely.
1. Men who are pastors / preachers who watch pornography are guilty of adultery and should step down.
2. Their wives are fully able to divorce them on adultery grounds.

That's how important this verse is. Let's hear what each of the redeemed has to say about this.

God bless,
Lisa


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MrBillPro Nov 3, 2017

Lisa...Matthew 5:28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Well I don't have that problem anymore, at 66 my lust has turned into dust. :-)

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rbanks Nov 3, 2017

Frank, thank you brother, for I appreciate and agree with your post!

We must be people of grace instead of law.

I remember few months ago that my daughter told me about a lady at her work who was very depressed. Her Pastor, friends, and her husband could not seem to help her. She had read on the internet that she was living in adultery because she was married before and her former husband was still living. Her problem was that the man she was now married to was a fine christian man who loved her dearly, if you want to call this a problem.

Well, she was getting very depressed and people could see how unhappy she was even though they tried to help her. My daughter told her to call me. She told her that my dad talks and walks with the Lord in the Spirit everyday and he will tell you what he gets from the Lord and not what people want to hear. So after a couple of days the lady called me and told me who she was and that my daughter had asked her to call me.

I talked to her about 40 minutes and during this time God revealed some things to me to tell her that was a blessing. There was so much improvement in her that her boss noticed it and came to my daughter to tell her what a difference in her since she had talk to me.

This is what I discovered about her. She was so depressed over thinking that she was going to go to hell if she didn’t leave her wonderful Christian husband. I found out that her former husband was an alcoholic who was not a Christian and that he had left her.

I told her about the scriptures in the gospels and in 1 Cor. 7:1-15: I told her that Paul wrote this so she could have peace, and not be in bondage if the unbeliever departed. I said...and that peace is the very thing you don’t have...when God wants you to have it. I told her that she was not in bondage over what decision her former husband had made, and that not being in bondage meant that she was free. That really means she is free. Now she can marry but only in the Lord and she had done that because her husband was a Christian. I told her the marriage, she was in now, was approved by the Lord according to the scriptures.

I said to her, that it was a great blessing that her husband was a good Christian man who loved her and not to pay attention to the internet. I told her that some people don’t care if they destroy a family that God has blessed. I don’t have the time to tell of everything I said, but God showed me the importance of the cross in dealing with our old life of sin.

Colossians 2:13-15
13 And you, being dead in your sins and the uncircumcision of your flesh, hath he quickened together with him, having forgiven you all trespasses;
14 Blotting out the handwriting of ordinances that was against us, which was contrary to us, and took it out of the way, nailing it to his cross;
15 And having spoiled principalities and powers, he made a show of them openly, triumphing over them in it.

One final word, brethren, let’s not be so foolish to believe that every marriage has been put together by God. I would say that many marriages today are no more put together by God than those who are shacking up together without marriage. It has always alarmed me how these religious people who are nuts over being legalistic toward someone without a care about them at all. I mean to them a person can shack up with someone for a year and shack up with someone else another time, but later on get married and then commit adultery against their spouse but ask God to forgive them and still have a legitimate marriage. But now a person who was innocent and didn’t do anything wrong, because their spouse left them, but later on they have a good Christian marriage, and they are told their marriage is not legit. Now go figure...but that’s just being plain ridiculous!

Friends, the Jesus I serve paid it all! He died on the cross and shed His blood for the forgiveness of all sin. That means even a vow that you made but wasn’t able to live up too...He is a wonderful and powerful Lord and Savior!

Blessings to all...rbanks

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Praise the Lord bro Rbanks, you were used to free this poor woman from her bondage and the accusations, and we know where those accusations come from. Adding our own thoughts to the Scriptures is so dangerous, what the Scriptures tell us about marriage and divorce is simple enough for all to understand and God protects the innocent in all of that. Now look, the innocents freedom is spied out and legalizers or Judaizers, call them what you like, are bound and determined in their legalistic zeal to cause bondage and mayhem anywhere they go and all in the name of God's Word. Thank you again brother, my heart breaks for the spirits that are crushed by men like this, typically idle busybodies who should probably be making tents and putting food on their families table.

Now dont get me wrong, I detest the scourge of divorce that has ravaged America and now so much of the west, but it is not the innocents fault if they marry an unrepentant adulterer who then leaves them and divorces them. It is my firm opinion that two people who love Jesus with all of their hearts can work out any problem, including adultery. So many sweet, sweet women and men have forgiven their spouses for this horrific act of betrayal even although the Lord says "But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery." The Lord Jesus Himself gives the exception but the sweet saint who takes the high road and forgives is highly favored of God and their hearts are beautiful. But, when faced with an unrepentant spouse who leaves and divorces or continually violates the marriage covenant , the woman or the man is freed from this marriage and the innocent is not under bondage to this marriage, the marriage is annulled in the site of God........bro Frank

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TMK Nov 3, 2017

Amen rbanks- awesome!

Frank I appreciate your wise words on this topic and I think you have summarized the biblical evidence on this topic correctly.

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Some testimonies to consider:


Marriage Permanence - Brett's Testimony
https://www.sermonindex.net/modules/myvideo/photo.php?lid=6033

Marriage Permanence - Jeremiah's Testimony
https://www.sermonindex.net/modules/myvideo/photo.php?lid=6031

Marriage Permanence - Jim Barger's Testimony
https://www.sermonindex.net/modules/myvideo/photo.php?lid=6030

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rbanks Nov 3, 2017

Amen brother Frank! I also agree with your last post cncerning those who forgive and even put up with an unbelieving spouse.

I have seen those who put up with sometimes an abusive spouse with the love of the Lord striving to win them to the Lord. I truly admire those who stay with an unbeliever hoping to see them come to salvation in Christ.

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rbanks Nov 3, 2017

I listen to Brett’s testimony and was so grieved in my spirit that I don’t even want to listen to the others.

I really feel sorry for him. He is so high up on the obedience scale that in his eyes so few are even able to measure up to his standard of unhappiness that we should be striving for.

I hope he realizes that he is going to need a lot of grace before he leaves this world. I hope he realizes that he will also be judged according to the mercy he has shown to others.

I believe he needs a baptism of love and I don’t know if he claims the baptism in the Holy Ghost, but the Bible says the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit.

One final note, the scripture says that the letter kills but the Spirit gives life. His testimony sounds like death to me put on by people who promote death instead of life in the Spirit.

Blessings to all!

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passerby Nov 4, 2017

Is Brett in a better position in a way that her marriage is actually invalid (as he presumed) and he can marry anytime he wants. But is his marriage not really acceptable that he can do nothing but abandon his wife.

I guess this complication in life was also pressing dilemma as Paul was writing his letter to Corintians. My take in this situation is this, 1cor7:24 "So, brethren, in whatever state each was called, there let him remain with God." (RSV)
From thereon, let the new life take its course.

We do not know just how much complications we made in the past, and the imposiibility of fully restoring them if we will account them one by one.

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