We met one time before but got together again today. I can say he is a very nice and gentle spirited person. We talked for a while and what I came away from the conversation is as follows:
1) His mother had a baby and died one month later during surgery she needed. She didn't wake up and his Baptist grandfather who was a minister told him that God took her because he wanted her and wanted to make an angel. He said he wondered at the time and for a while why God would kill his mother (his words) if God is love. If God wanted to make an angel out of her then why not just make an angel. Somewhere along the line in his life he met a JW who assured him God didn't kill his mother just because He wanted her and Aldo showed him the reality of the devil's evil deeds and works. He almost teared up speaking of his mother and this event from years ago so I could tell it was still somewhat personal to him. He said he has come to realize that things and unexpected events can happen to people yet it was a JW who first took scripture and showed him God did not kill his mother.
2) No JW official or elder or Kingdom Hall member is ever paid anything for their services.
3) He almost ran circles around me with his knowledge of scripture. He was not prideful or overbearing but was respectful and considerate as he shared.
I gave him my testimony not in a lot of detail but asked him in the opinion of the JWs what they would feel I had done wrong. He sort of didn't answer me directly but took me to where Jesus said the Father seeks those who will worship Him in spirit and truth. He said many worship Him in spirit but if it is not in truth God will not accept it.
4) He wondered out loud why so many churches sing about God has the whole world in his hands when scripture states the whole world lies in the power and grip of the evil one.
5) He said that no matter where he went in the world that every JW Kingdom Hall would be teaching the very same thing. There would be no varying doctrine in the JW Kingdom Halls no matter where they were at in the world and he said he has never found this sameness anywhere else.
I tried to keep focused on Calvary and stressed as best I could that the cross was a perfect work and didn't need to be added to or taken from or changed of modified in any way. I guess somewhere in my mind I was thinking that JW have likely tinkered with the doctrine of the cross and sought to modify or add to it. It is what it is and we need to let it be what it is. I said obviously God accepted this sacrifice because Christ only had to do it once and God bore witness it was acceptable to Him by raising Jesus from the dead. He looked at me intently while I said these things about the cross.
We are going to meet again. He is a very kind hearted fellow and is presently trying to help a confused and struggling young man in the grips of a drug habit. So he likes helping people and is easy to speak with because he is respectful.
We agreed to meet again in the not so far future.
