In this forum many of us have expressed our concern over the lukewarm conditions of our modern day church – our failure to put Christ first in our lives, and our failure to minister effectively into the lives of the broken and wounded and the unsaved. The massive problem of relational tensions and dysfunction in the body is crippling the church. Yet, our concerns don’t seem to be shared by a large segment of our fellow worshippers. Here are a few quotes related to issues of interpersonal relationships, from the Sept. 27,05 article released on the Barna Update site. For the full article and other disturbing issues see: Barna UpdateAmericans rated themselves most positively in the area of “maintaining healthy relationships.” Close to half of all self-identified Christian adults (48%) said they are “completely” or “highly” developed in that aspect, with 46% saying they are “about average” in this dimension, and just 6% claimed to be below average. The second-most favorable rating was for serving other people. About four out of every ten self-described Christian adults (41%) said they are “completely” or “highly” developed in that aspect of their spiritual life, while half said they are about average in this area, and 8% said they are below average. Next came “consistently living out your faith principles,” for which 37% said they do an above average job, 55% claimed to be average, and only 8% admitted to being below average. There were some noteworthy response patterns and surprising outcomes from the survey. A majority of adults consider themselves to be “average” in most of the seven areas of spiritual life that were studied. The survey showed that people are more likely to ignore their areas of spiritual under-development in favor of continuing to focus on the areas in which they are most comfortable or feel most self-confident. George Barna ... explained. “Americans are generally satisfied with being ‘average’ in their spiritual maturity. That betrays the fact that we do not serve an ‘average’ God, or one who is honored by people who are lukewarm about their faith.” Until we are shaken free from this massive denial, the wounded sinners will continue to be damaged by the hypocritical church. Our witness in our society will continue to portray a distorted perception of God, just as was in Paul’s day, which was why he said to the Church leaders, “God’s name is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you.” Rom. 2:24I ask, what will it take to break Christendom out of this denial? Think about it for a minute - it will take just what it took in our own personal lives – complete brokenness, and devastation of all that we once held dear – all that served to keep us in denial, including our comfortable religious experience. I have to admit, that my prayers for revival are submitted with fear and trembling. I ask myself, do I really want to see people’s lives be shaken? Do I really want to see the upheaval that it takes to break people out of their delusions? Praying for revival is a costly prayer, because it means that our own lives will be shaken along with the rest. For we are part of the bigger community – and part of the relational dysfunctions. Nevertheless, we must be disturbed sufficiently with the above statistics, and see the horrendous devastation down the road if God does not intervene. May God do whatever it takes to break us out of our comfortable denials. Diane
