Dear Paula-NZ,Hebrews 11:1 (NLT)What is faith? It is the confident assurance that what we hope for is going to happen. It is the evidence of things we cannot yet see.To have faith in Jesus is to believe in Him. And to believe in Him is to believe what He says. Faith includes several important things: trust and submission.Trust in the Lord. Faith is all about trust. This means that you trust what Jesus says: you trust in what He is doing and is going to do.Submit unto the Lord. Faith is all about submission. Having faith in Jesus means you are putting your faith in Him. More or less, you are depending on Him. Your life depends on Him. This cannot happen unless you submit unto Him.(Read the rest of Hebrews 11, it talks all about faith.)It is good that you seek to be obedient. The Lord probably laid this desire on your heart. He will not force you to do anything. He is making a request. He is asking you to take some steps in faith. Will you do what He asks? Will you take the steps and trust in Him? Prayer is one of the most important things a Christian can do. Jesus wants a relationship with us. A key component of any relationship is communication. How can you have a relationship with God, if you do not communicate with Him? You need to spend time with the Lord in prayer. Jesus spent many, many hours praying. If God is asking you to give up TV in order to pray, He is asking you to come spend time with Him. Will you do it? You asked, what is the difference between faith and works? I think by this question you are asking what is the difference between works with faith, and works without faith. Works without faith means that you are trying to do things for God in order to earn His favor. It means you are trying to earn something. You do good things so that you can earn benefits. For instance, you do good things so that you can earn a ticket into Heaven.Works with faith means that you do things for God because God love's you. It means that you are doing these thing as a result of what God has done for you. For instance, when God's love fills you so much, you can't help but run into the streets and tell everyone how great God is. In the first instance, the person is being selfish. They don't really love God. They are doing good things so that they can get stuff. In the second instance, the person acting in love. They are out doing good things to show appreciation to God for God loving them. As you pointed out, when we do works with faith, our heart is in it. When our heart is in it, we are filled with joy. When we delight in the Lord, we are overwhelmed with joy, and are extremely thankful for all His love. And so, if your heart is not in your works, then are you really showing God appreciation? Are you really delighting in the Lord? You must realize though that humans are weak. We are failures. We need Jesus. We need Jesus for salvation. We need Jesus to carry us through even after we are saved. We need Him, not once to be saved, but always. And so, it is important for us to continually draw close to the Lord and ask Him for help. The apostle Paul said, 1 Corinthians 15:31 (NKJ)I affirm, by the boasting in you which I have in Christ Jesus our Lord, I die daily.Every day, Paul died to his old man, and every day Paul gave his life to Jesus. This means, that every day Paul drew close to the Lord so that the Holy Spirit could fill Him. When the Holy Spirit fills us, He produced fruit as outlined in Galatians 5:22. One of these fruit is joy. It is important for us to humble ourselves before the Lord and seek His will. We should seek to do His will, and by this we are seeking to be obedient. We should also trust in the Lord that He will direct our path. (Proverbs 3:5,6) Trusting in the Lord means we will wait on the Lord. (Psalms 27:14, 37:5)The above means many things, but especially it means we need to pray and be honest with the Lord. Confess all your thoughts and desires. Confess everything before the Lord. Ask Him questions. Seek His will. Be real with God. Talk to Him like a best friend, like a close parent, like someone you love. God knows you inside and out. He knows your every thought and every action. He knows what you will say before you say it. (Matthew 6:8) When we pray to the Lord and confess all things to Him, it confirms this. It makes our faith true. When we do this, we are saying, "I believe you are God." Especially when we ask Him for something. It takes faith to ask someone for something. We must believe they can do it. And so, when we ask God for things, we are showing our faith that He can do those things. I believe it is always important to be honest with God. We should cast all our anxiety on Jesus as Peter says (1 Peter 5:7). Confess your sins. (1 John 1:8-10)When you devote your time to God, especially in prayer, trust in Jesus and submit unto Him, you will delight in the Lord. The Lord will bless you. Anyway, I am sorry this has become so long. I suppose I could have narrowed this post down to one word: "PRAY!" Speak to God, with your heart.Hope this helps,In love,Blake