Hi RonIf I cast up a confessed, repented, and forsaken sin against another, and allow my remembrance of that sin to color my thinking and feed my suspicions,Then I know nothing of Calvary love. I suspect that she may be thinking along the lines of, Love... “Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;” (1Cor. 13:5, KJV)“doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not its own, is not provoked, taketh not account of evil;” (1Cor. 13:5, ASV) the idea might be paraphrased... 'love... does not keep an account of evil'. It is because of 'Calvary Love' in the sacrifice of the cross that justification includes the aspect of 'sins not reckoned'. “Saying, Blessed are they whose iniquities are forgiven, and whose sins are covered. Blessed is the man to whom the Lord will not impute sin.” (Rom. 4:7-8, KJVS) The word 'impute' here is 'logizomai' which is the word translated 'thinketh' in the KJV of 1 Cor 13:5.There is a wonderful example of God's refusal 'to keep an account of sin' in the story of the prodigal..Luke 15:21 (KJVS) And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son. is the prodigal 'confessing his sin' which when the older brother tries to exhume receives an interesting answer...“But as soon as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with harlots, thou hast killed for him the fatted calf. And he said unto him, Son, thou art ever with me, and all that I have is thine. It was meet that we should make merry, and be glad: for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found.” (Luke 15:30-32, KJVS) . The father will not allow himself to be reminded of the confessed sin. Love, keeps no account of sin, and if I do keep such an account, I know "nothing of Calvary Love..."sometime ago I posted quite a few of Amy Carmichael's 'provocations to love and good works' here.I think 'casting up sin against another' is using the memory of a previous sin to colour my judgement of the present event or, even worse, recounting an earlier sin in order to prejudice another person's view against someone. "You need to be careful about 'so and so', I remember once when he...." You will never hear Christ use that kind of language.edit: 2 minutes later! The Isaiah verse just came to mind...“Behold, for peace I had great bitterness: but thou hast in love to my soul delivered it from the pit of corruption: for thou hast cast all my sins behind thy back.” (Is. 38:17, KJVS) and even more especially this one...“But the wicked are like the troubled sea, when it cannot rest, whose waters cast up mire and dirt.” (Is. 57:20, KJVS) Alas there are those who 'cannot let things rest' but will persist in 'casting up mire and dirt'.