Hi Greenquality...I attended a particular church for a while that slowly changed into one of those prosperity "health & wealth" type of churches. It was very sad, because they viewed suffering as a "curse." I pointed out to the pastor that Jesus suffered, ALL of the apostles suffered, and the church (both early and later) suffered. I also pointed out that there are believers in many nations that are still suffering for the cause of Christ (not just the "hahaha - you're a christian" but the "deny your faith or you and your family will die" type of persecution). Jesus said, "In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world" (John 16:33b). However, there is a peace, there is a happiness and there is a joy that can and should be experienced by believers in their everyday lives. It is the power to know and fellowship with Christ in the midst of terrible circumstances. It is the power, that in the midst of crucifixion, to know that Christ is there beside you. Remember that in the beginning of that same verse, Jesus says: "These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace" (John 16:33a).I know believers that, in the midst of immeasurable suffering, have remained filled with a peace that surpasses all understanding. I think about Corrie ten Boom speak of knowing such peace and joy even as she and her sister withered away at the Ravensbrück concentration camp. I read about men and women that maintain that peace, joy and happiness even through terrible medical circumstances, knowing that they their earthly "temple" -- with all of its limitations and pains -- can in no wise negate their relationship with Christ. I know of men and women that have been locked away in prison for terrible crimes (and in some circumstances, for crimes that they never committed), yet they have established a strong relationship with our Lord. Such happiness and joy is not confined to individuals that are presently suffering. This peace can and should be experienced by all of us that are not in difficult circumstances. However, I'm not certain that it can be fully understood unless you have experienced such pain and still maintain such peace and joy. I know that some individuals actually long for suffering. I don't. I am definitely willing to suffer for Christ. If that suffering comes, I will accept it and continue my relationship with Christ. My relationship with Christ is the foundation of my existance. The "rug" of this world could be pulled from beneath my feet -- but as long as I know Jesus, I will continue to consider this world but a loss. Compared with the stories of the apostles, and other men and women throughout history, I have not yet suffered for the cause of Christ. Yes, I have been mocked. I have been rejected by some friends and family for my relationship with the Lord. I have been slandered by some (including pastors) because of my hunger for more of Christ. I've even been slapped and punched for sharing my relationship with Christ to others. Yet this is so small when I consider the real suffering endured by believers all over the world. Not only are many persecuted for their faith, but I know of individuals that suffer terribly in their health -- but they continue to remain solid in their love and testimony. God help all of us to maintain a true relationship with Christ regardless of our circumstances. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. "Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:38-39 :-)